JimBeamLean5519

If Its not working the 1 time it would never work the 2nd or the 100d time.. But that depends on the reason why you break up also, if its lame then it may work. But I personally learned that it will never work the other times ..

Yes ... When I was 18 yrs old, I had a boyfriend who I was absolutely crazy about (too young to call it love, although I thought so at the time) After a few months, and a lot of cheating which I found out about later, we broke up, and I was heartbroken, but we remained friends, and then eventually lost touch within a year ... fast forward two years later, I am just arriving back to New York after a weekend road trip with the girls, and we ran into my ex later that night in a club. The crazy thing is, just minutes before encountering my ex, my girlfriend randomly brought him up and implied that I had not gotten over him, which of course I proudly disagreed with.
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Longer story short, my ex asked me out again, and I reluctantly accepted. Things were very different this time around. I was coming into my own, and had no storage of guys to date, but low and behold this time it's my ex who is over the moon for me .... very unexpected, and not necessarily welcomed. I really didn't want a boyfriend at the time, but I was extremely flattered by how gaga he was for me this time, and eventually I caved in and got back with him.
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At first I think I was just loving the fact that the tables had appeared to turn, but I liked him enough, and we continued on with a relationship that lead to marriage 1 1/2 later ... It was not a happy marriage for me, I felt like I was too young, and could do much better a lone, so after 6 months I left him. He tried several times within the next year to reconcile with me. I briefly went back, only to end up leaving him again because the truth is I just didn't love him, and I hated "married life". To this day it is not anything I am remotely interested in.
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The Moral of my story is ... Don't ever go back! I wasted a good two years of my life with someone whom I wasn't at all in Love with. I think I subconsciously wanted him to know what it felt like to Love someone, and ultimately NOT love you back. I very much regret marrying him, and wish I had just casually dated him until that fizzled out, because it was destined to do so.
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It doesn't sound like you love your ex, or relationships, so I say RUN BROTHA, RUN AS FAST AS YOU CAN! You may hurt her now, but it will help her later wink If getting involved was in anyway the "right thing to do", you would not have written this blog ... just sayin biggrin

yup, made that mistake once
if it didn't work out the first time it probably wont work the second time around

Yes, I dated a girl for 3 years. We broke up, then after a few months I dated her for a couple more months.
It was not very good the second time. Bad memories were frequently brought up making the relationship hard to work the second time around.

yah broke up with my ex a year and a half ago was with her for 6yr's,she moved to the states and when she comes home once or twice a year we get together for just fun,no commitment thats grand suits both of us