KAT's Female Members03 June 2012, 08:41 (11 months ago)
It has been brought to my attention that some of our female members are suffering sexual innuendo via the pm system. If this is the case, then it needs to stop and stop now. If you are having problems with a certain member regarding sexual pm's then please contact a staff member straight away and we will deal with it.
~ I have also been told that some of our female members will not come forward as they feel that nothing is ever done regarding these issues. This is not the case, as we do take such actions very seriously and act upon them accordingly. If it is proven that you are harassing female members for sexual gain, then your account maybe removed without prior notice. Before such an action is taken, we will endeavour to seek both sides of the story and mediate between the members in question. ~ You will then be informed of our findings and what the outcome will be. If however you think the findings or penalty do not meet with your agreement, then it will be passed higher up to admin. Those inturn will look at all the evidence and present you with their outcome. ~ Alternatively if you would like to talk with a female moderator then please do not hesitate to contact VladSam36948 as they will be more than happy to answer any questions you may have. It has saddened me having to post such a thread, and I hope there will be no more in the foreseeable future. Mods and Staff Members Regards Kickass Staff Last edited by SMoK3™17466, yesterday 20 replies before
magicpotions1211
What goes on real life we can at least stick a finger up, or two
![]() What make me sad are those who take advantage of the anonymity of the internet, and just want to get some fun with someone elses time, spaming the email in a way beyond normality, asking embarrassing questions, pushing the envelop to get whatever they are entitled to. Great point but, some people must be made aware that a person's anonymity on the internet is getting less and less...well...anonymous. If one wants to find out things about somebody else's personal life one would only have to go on facebook, google the name, and use different forum searching en mass engines. It's not usually worth the hassle but you're right, some people think they can be douche bags just because they think they are anonymous.
This thread is indeed sad but I have to say that I'm not surprised. With 2 million+ members it's inevitable, unfortunately. Good thing that it's been noticed and that there is a form for taking care of this issue. That is one of many reasons why this site is so great. Problems become solved. And just because there is some "dirt" in this community that doesn't mean it "pollute" everything. Keep up the good and happy spirit!
![]() Harmless flirting in my opinion if fun.
What gets to me is that some of the guys (and I'm sure there are some ladies who do the same either to the guys or even other females if that's their preference) think this is Match. com. You get friendly pm's to start then it turns into flirtation (no problem I like to flirt) then gets a little more pushy but then when they find out you are married and not interested in having a relationship... especially with someone who lives 4000 miles away....you never here from them again.. . I said all of that just mainly venting but also to remind people that this is not a dating site. ![]() Harmless flirting in my opinion if fun. What gets to me is that some of the guys (and I'm sure there are some ladies who do the same either to the guys or even other females if that's their preference) think this is Match. com. You get friendly pm's to start then it turns into flirtation (no problem I like to flirt) then gets a little more pushy but then when they find out you are married and not interested in having a relationship... especially with someone who lives 4000 miles away....you never here from them again.I totally agree! It can also be a fun way to spend time, while waiting for download to finish... AND! Maybe, just maybe - this "flirt" sure can evolve in something a little bigger? Harmless flirting in my opinion if fun. What gets to me is that some of the guys (and I'm sure there are some ladies who do the same either to the guys or even other females if that's their preference) think this is Match. com. You get friendly pm's to start then it turns into flirtation (no problem I like to flirt) then gets a little more pushy but then when they find out you are married and not interested in having a relationship... especially with someone who lives 4000 miles away....you never here from them again.I totally agree! It can also be a fun way to spend time, while waiting for download to finish... AND! Maybe, just maybe - this "flirt" sure can evolve in something a little bigger? hai how are you?
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What gets to me is that some of the guys (and I'm sure there are some ladies who do the same either to the guys or even other females if that's their preference) think this is Match. com. You get friendly pm's to start then it turns into flirtation (no problem I like to flirt) then gets a little more pushy but then when they find out you are married and not interested in having a relationship... especially with someone who lives 4000 miles away....you never here from them again.



