Please enlighten me. I don't understand the whole 'Bad Boy' thing...
Firstly, before you all accuse me, I don't get jealous. I get easliy confused.
My wife, my female friends, all go ga-ga over rockers etc.
For some reason, Good Charlotte are 'spunky'. (Huh??)
I have tattoos, they have tattoos.
They play guitars, I don't. Really, that's about it....
Bad boys treat women like sh!t - cheat on them, abuse them, use them and throw them away...
What do you REALLY like about a tattooed guy who is in a band who would have sex with you, wipe his d!ck and then screw your sister without hesitation, and treat you like dog crap?
What do you admire in a guy who is more in love with his own ego than you?
You know you're nothing to him right?
What do you see attractive in a man that is always in trouble with the law?
If I get tatted up, play guitar and then use you and abuse you, is that really all you think you're worth???
Seriously, explain it to me. I know I'm thick, but use little words, short sentences and pictures if it helps. Just make me understand. Coz the only difference between me and a bad boy is: I DON"T TREAT YOU LIKE SH!T!!!
I have tattoos, I can learn to play a guitar and I CAN ACTUALLY SING. So, what is it????
Do nice guys show you too much affection? Show you love? Or just not slap you around enough? Please, please enlighten me so I can be the perfect bad boy for my missus...
Yours Sincerely,
Totally confused nice guy, who wants nothing more than to be all he can for his wife but lacks being a complete c*nt...and apparently that's what you's want....

It sounds like you are interested in the wrong kind of chicks

Evolution is to blame for this one I’m afraid. Many women are primarily (not all women) programmed to feel an attraction to a man who displays the characteristics of an alpha male. Alpha males are usually bigger stronger and meaner, which in our distant past is how they became the leaders. An alpha will usually be self centred and aggressive because those are necessary traits if you are going to compete and win against other men physically. This is why skinny little rock stars with big egos get super model girlfriends, they are not big and strong but they have the characteristics of someone who is. The good news for the rest of us men who don’t want to play the game is that being strong, caring and protective will also make you an alpha and ultimately will make you and the woman you are with much happier. Take some comfort in knowing that most of the selfish aggressive men in the world spend their lives having to compete with other selfish aggressive men and rarely find lasting meaningful happiness with anyone.

I would say ur chicks is immature one. Chicks like that, strict to my opinion, is someone u should stay away as far as possible.
Cuz they tend to do / behave stupidly, n u seems to be quite a nice guy. Tell her ur opinion make her understand ur true self, show her that so see can see the real gem she already have n she better take a good care of it

Excellent Post.

The ironic thing here is that more often than not, the ones who think they are all smoking bad are nothing but hot air. Ultimately the woman sees through all this, and realizes she is with ANOTHER loser. Guys who are trying to be the alpha male tread this cycle again and again, and women who chase this alpha male also enjoy the ups and downs of such foolishness.

If they sat back and really examined cases, they would see the real bad asses are often the ones who are the most kind and considerate. They know they are bad, they do not have to portray anything, nor do they have to prove anything to anyone.

Moral of the story, just be you. Good, Bad, or otherwise, everyone will be happier in the long run. Those who like you know they are getting the genuine article and those that hate you can bugger off.