I mean, I'm a guy, obviously, but I'm kinda sensitive.

I guess some guys just act heartless cos it's easier to be a jerk than it is to admit you care or that you have a soft side?

I don't know.
Sigh.

i think humans as a species are rather ruthless. look back in history and see. i mean really, how many species have we completely wiped of the face of the earth just for entertainment. we chop the fins off the backs of sharks for example, they do not die from blood loss, they die from suffocation, because they need to swim to survive. and what was the point? we could have used the entire shark to be sure. do not think that you are the only one who has been wronged. shoot your ex in the face, and then save his life. that's good revenge right there.

sorry if i overdid it lmfao

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Smettere di essere così aspro nella vostra vita e invece davvero vedere il mondo e lo vivono. Sono felice sposata ad un uomo straordinario che io amo e adoro.

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Stop being so harsh in your life and really rather see the world and live it. I am happy married to an amazing man whom I love and adore.

Humans were made to f**k. Our "civilized" society introduced relationships. :P

after this thread is solved let's tackle world hunger...

The point IS......it SHOULD be an option given it is part of the engineering of all humans. Has nothing to do with gender. Cultural conditioning and so, then peer pressure.... often violate that engineering. Is the point.

Next....I have always run like hell form guys who treat me like a "goddess". I want to be treated as the individual , complex, imperfect human I am.....very lonely on some pedestal!

Good post, good example....examples are infinite. Even that man feels perfectly fine about wreaking havoc on evolution's perfection....breeding other animals, often for arbitrary purposes.. to our liking of the moment....always makes for genetic weaknesses.....is terrible. Just that we surgically alter dogs for some capricious aesthetic....I think, terrible.

I try to remember than when watching the Westminster dogs show, i.e.....cause sometimes, I forget.